Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Prolexis Enlargement Review
violence arises
abuse of power from one person to another.
is curious suggestion that a reflection on violence when violence is defined, precisely because it is an act devoid of any possibility of reflection. That which precludes consideration is where the violence.
It is the formation of ties based on narcissistic impulses that do not recognize the existence of "other" outside the person himself and sees others as representatives of the unwanted parts of oneself. is a state of almost total solitude populated by very confusing internal images are projected, for example, in marriage.
Hence the only answer to violence as proposed article Garda, be listening. listening first, in front of someone you do know who holds the violence that may contain his inner world through reflection, and secondly, that to start listening self-words for their experiences silent and secret, is the possibility of establishing an intimate relationship with someone live, recognizable out of his mind. Think
violence from the point of view of men's silence can not do nothing but act out their fear and discomfort, helps to inoculate against the tendency to moralize the issue immediately, as if it just a matter of behavior instead of personality structure. Interestingly
6 categories that presented a study about how men have the fantasy role that women must meet in front of them, are all in the sense that "it one way or another is the service Total him, "thus confirming that this is a problem rooted in the early stages of emotional development when the mother is absolutely at the service of baby. As if to recreate this relationship in an adult with any person who has self harmed enough to permit such a claim. It's actually a crazy claim of completeness and narcissistic omnipotence, as I suggested earlier.
then is played compulsively that experience of emotional isolation that disrupts the ability to think what it does, on the one hand, and on the other, the effect of violence on others.
From a viewpoint less intimate and more social or community, the "World Report on Violence and Health", describes a scene looking for commonalities between the stories of violence in different cultures where the understanding of what is violence, and especially the rights of men over women are rooted in ancient cultural discourses.
Although different societies differ according to their own criteria among the reasons "just" or "unfair" of abuse, is now known that most battered women are not passive victims, but adopt active strategies to maximize their safety and their children. And among the factors that may cause women continue in a relationship where they are battered listed above, the fear of punishment, lack of money, concern for children, emotional dependence, lack of support from friends and family, and the constant hope (I would say delusional) that man will change.
Impacts to consciousness this strange relationship between the silence of men that we talked about before, and their correspondence with the silence of women, being basically half of battered women never mentioned the abuse to others. Ending a relationship is not an isolated event but a process and explains that most women leave and return several times before able to make the decision to terminate the relationship permanently.
Violence in the family home has emerged as a risk factor (along with alcohol) especially powerful intimate partner aggression. There are 5 times more likely to be assaulted by a man who has consumed alcohol, which a sober man. There are obvious emotional needs any human who holds emotionally suspended in a glass, which gives the benefit he be obsessed awareness of feelings and inner world. No resources to put into words their experiences of life, especially the painful feeling of deadness. The meeting with parties who feel self dead.
also clear the enormous importance of social support networks to strengthen women's decision to live homeless and not linked to any alternative exit. Which have a place to go, legal protection, a group to talk, a service of physical and mental health, job training, programs for children, is a necessary and urgent social responsibility.
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