Fertility.
One thinks of fertility and think about babies.
Or the lack thereof. Think
creativity.
Or lack thereof.
you think of a job, the love of life, in friendships, in abundance.
you think you need luck, you think of poverty, you think of lifelessness. You may feel dry / o. In
to live.
There is an intimate relationship between fertility and the will to live. Finally
not conceive a child only.
A rich life is a life full of fruit, to give, to be productive, in generosity.
always know the mind and body are able to influence the body. Biological infertility is the easiest way to understand this difficulty to give life. This difficulty we sum drops of poison in the blood that leaves us increasingly frustrated, angry and desperately unhappy. But perhaps we could think of a way to nurture more new possibilities.
is known that women with deep experience depression are twice as likely to have problems with reproduction.
fertility begins with the image, and feelings associated with that image, "of ourselves. If we have an inner world in low light, little water, little care, short, poor sensitivity, we have even the raw material, to bring forth something new from us.
Okay, now we can feel worse. Not only are we tolerating the pain of not being able to generate new life, but also now we blame for it. It is certain that we have already blamed a hundred times before, with the difference that now we also have a good argument.
Guilt is a gum that we should have stopped chewing in lost flavor. Guilt is a good tool to help us think if anything we should have done differently, if there are aspects of our personality that we should improve. That is the taste. And their role. Then it becomes a source of bacteria that can chew a lifetime.
Talk about a hard inner world is in fact the beginning of real hope. If suddenly turn our face and we realize that we are in a dark place, you have to do then is get up, wash face, open windows ... if you can.
If not, please take care, and be sure to discuss this with someone who can help you with what you need. We all need. We all need air. By
committed self-healing process, and thanks to the resolution of painful experiences of childhood and family conflicts, it is possible to create a new life for individuals and for couples, achieving a new inner life healthier and happier. Many times the emotional conflicts can arise in the form of family secrets, which close our breath, to not miss anything dangerous. If we
the time to listen what we say all day in silence, in the mind, if we take responsibility to understand the origin of the negative messages that dry the heart, through the identification and release deep emotions expressed not in a process that takes into account the way that family history and the experiences that accompanied us to grow have influenced our ability to make changes, to look at ourselves and the people who want a more juicy, more satisfying, more full of possibilities .
is important to realize if we have become a repository of painful experiences.
negative voices lose their power when we are willing to listen.
Healing the wounds of childhood is not just a way to reclaim and reassert the reproductive capacity, in other words, the ability to create new things, but also a way to heal many other aspects of life.
The word "fertility" in a deeper sense, it reflects a feeling about oneself vital and positive relationship with the rest of the world. We can only start seeing fertile beings, thoroughly reviewing a few points:
• Exploring childhood memories and experiences, conscious and unconscious, stories and myths of the family, about their own vitality.
• Develop, working to understand painful memories, "forgotten" apparently.
• Daring to appoint true feelings, in order to enrich the emotional and physical life who longs to conceive ...
Sabina Alazraki
Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy
s_alazraki@hotmail.com
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